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SOURCE: HUFFINGTON POST

Holding Hands

A black woman wrote into the magazine saying that her husband calls her “ni**er b**ch” during sex and has joked about “purchasing her freedom” when he married her and he has been dropping the n-bomb since their honeymoon.  Which begs the question that if he was able to refrain from saying it before they got married, what made him start after they were married?

Check out some of the excerpts from this ladies letter!

 

I have been married for a year and I am at my wit’s end. My investment banker husband is from a White old money family. I am a first generation Black-American woman whose family is from the island of Jamaica. We met at a reunion for the Ivy League school we both attended, and he proposed in six months.

I am a little embarrassed to share our problem. The first time he let the n-word drop was during sex on our honeymoon. When I reacted negatively, he explained that a Black woman he dated in the past enjoyed being called racial slurs. Another time he joked that he had purchased my freedom. He also speculated about whether his family could have owned mine because I have “good hair.” Then he made jokes about my pubic hair. He called it my “negro bush” and referred to himself as a “nigger lover.” He says I am being overly sensitive because he loves me to death and should get a “Black pass” for marrying me.

I am too embarrassed to tell anyone about this because I know they might say, “That’s what she gets for marrying a White man.”

Every time we try having sex again, the slurs fly. Our sex life is pretty much over right now because I pretend to be asleep every time my sexy, handsome man wants to be with me. I feel completely turned off.

 

To see this full letter and rubtle check out the Huffington Post link here!